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One Way Ticket

I’m in the hand-basket… where to now?

Created on 2008-08-10 15:38:56 (#16330793), last updated 2009-12-22

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Name:frakkin_addict
Birthdate:1977-09-05
Location:Canada
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First off - If you want to friend me, go ahead. It doesn't matter why; maybe you like my stories, maybe my profile makes you smile, maybe you just feel like fucking with my mind - doesn't matter. Whatever the reason, it makes me happy and I'll friend you back (because you can never have too many friends.) ;)

I like to surround myself in things that make me happy. My family makes me happy. Even when my toddler tries to flush a full toilet paper roll, I'm still happy... albeit while pulling my hair out in frustration!

My friends make me happy. I like having them around. I'm fiercely loyal, but do tend to speak the honest truth with those I'm closest too. My absolute best friend is my husband, and he has been since we were 18. Even through the pains and heartaches that accompany married life, there is joy in my heart when he is close, and I ache for him when he is far. He's not just the man I live with, he's my confident, the holder of my secrets and dreams; he's my greatest lover, the other half that makes me whole. He makes me happy.

Working with my hands makes me happy. Whether I'm painting, doing stained glass, whatever... if my hands get dirty, scratched and my muscles sore, I enjoy it.

Being out in nature makes me happy. I love hiking and wildlife spotting. My favorite bird is the pileated woodpecker. They're huge, and when they walk, you'd swear they looked just like little dinosaurs. I try to do my best to leave as small a carbon footprint as I can. I want my kids and my kids' kids to be able to enjoy nature like I have. Composting, recycling, walking, buying local... it's not always possible, but I try my best to do what I can. Being a vegetarian makes me happy (even as I look longingly over at the bacon on my sister's pizza...). The UN Food and Agriculture Organization (FAO) estimates that the meat industry accounts for 18% of all the world’s greenhouse gas emissions. That’s a lot.

Boys kissing boys makes me veeeeeeeeeery happy. Torchwood is a dream come true because it blends my love of sci-fi with my obsession with boy love. Yes, I am a horny nerd at heart.

Discrimination, bigotry and homophobia do NOT make me happy. They make me very, very sad and angry. Fighting for GLTBQ rights alongside my Mum and my trans-brother makes me more than happy. It makes me proud. And I feel such gratitude that thanks to my brother's struggles and his openness throughout his journey, my children will grow up with none of the prejudices that I had to fight to overcome as a young adult. Thanks to him, my children will grow up safe in the knowledge that they are free to love men or woman or both or neither. They’ll know that there aren’t just 2 genders, and who you are on the inside is what truly matters.

Well that’s me, and some of that which makes me happy. (Bunnies also make me happy, and you know what… sometime a good cry can make me happy too.) Life is precious and more often than not, very, very hard. Find joy where you can.

Quotes that mean something to me:

"Poor animals! How jealously they guard their pathetic bodies ... that which to us is merely an evening's meal, but to them is life itself."
~ T. Casey Brennan (1948 - present), American comic book writer and memoirist.

"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter."
~ Martin Luther King, Jr.

Quotes that give me warm fuzzies:

"If you're gonna buy me a present, don't spend more than twenty five bucks, you'll get a blowjob anyway." – Gerard Way

"I went to school in drag, in art school and my day was completely different because everybody thought I was a chick. You should see me as a chick. So I went as a girl, as like an experiment and it worked really well and everyone was really nice to me but I couldn't talk obviously...you know train conductors were really cool to me on my commute...HA! I looked hot as a chick!" – Gerard Way

"I'd enjoy it if a guy grabbed my ass. I guess it all depends on how he grabbed it, too." – Gerard Way

"When you are kissing a guy with a beard, it's different." – Gerard Way

"This band is metal in that we have a lot of metal in our instruments, and there's quite a lot of metal on my belt buckle as well." – Mikey Way


"I would date Gerard." – Frank Iero

"I burn everything and call it Cajun.” – Frank Iero

Camera man: "Did you read the new Ellen Degeneres book?"
Frank: "Yeah."
Camera man: "What did you think?"
Frank: "It made me a fucking lesbian!" – Frank Iero

Credit: Animated MCR moods by rory_tutorgirl


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